Author of my dreams.

I have been asked to write a story about something, I don't know yet...I am still waiting for the inspiration. I understand my whole life is a story. The question I have always pondered on is should I tell it and if yes, how, and when? For those who know me I can be candid about my experiences in this life, sometimes that is motivated by how well I know you or sometimes if I feel sharing a particular thing will assist you.

I am wondering seriously what I should write about. I am hoping it will hit me soon, what I want people to know is that I am human too. I have made mistakes that have molded me into the person I am today. You must learn to stand firm, I have come to realize. Stand firm in yourself and let it all pass by. Just like that tree with solid roots, whether rain, thunder, drought, floods or strong winds may come it may be shaken but it never moves.

My one wish would be for everyone I meet or touch with my writing to be like that tree. God wants us to be that tree. Have our entire faith rooted in him, his grace, mercy and undying love. Know that whatever may come, whatever forces may present themselves to you in different forms, he is there and if you are rooted in him, you will never be removed from him. Know thy or mortal, learn the things you have been sent here to learn, teach others and give back then when you are done your day of true glory will come.

There is not enough glory in the world. It is like the winds of change it constantly changes and blows in different directions. The world and all its materials and money do not hold any true value. He who is inside you holds all the value that even yourself could never comprehend. Nature that, grow that, love that, honour that, respect that and learn from that I keep telling myself and all these things will be given unto you. This piece got me feeling like damnit! I WANT MY WINGS..

The Whispers - And The Beat Goes On Official Video

#tbt

Sought out the best.

"In the absence of the best, the worst becomes the best."

This is false. Just because people SETTLE for the worst does not mean it is or ever will be the best. For the mere fact that they recognise the absenteeism of the former collapses the notion of the latter as true.

-Ms_Curvy

Shine bright like a diamond.

Do everything without complaining or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure, children of God without fault in a crooked and depraved generation, in which you shine like stars in the universe.

—Philippians 2:14-15

NAME AND SHAME!

It is important to open dialogues with our children. My little sister is going to tertiary soon I thought it important to prepare her for the road ahead. It is better to be prepared, you can be late but always be prepared. If you have a little brother or sister who is also preparing to start a life of their own I think its time you equip them with the necessary information and skills to maneuver in this cold and dark place.

It is rough out there. As much as the mandate is to get there and study there are other developments that might be unavoidable like getting into a relationship. Then talk to them about what to do when it does happen. It is called INSURANCE. If a child gets into a relationship they must know about safety precautions from you and not from friends. We understand that they will make mistakes but do not let them repeat yours. If they know better they will do better.

Yes talk about condoms, morning after pills, contraceptives and most importantly SELF RESPECT. Remind them to take care of themselves at all times and that not everyone is their friend. When they go out, teach them never to leave their drinks unattended or allow any guy even the one they assume is their friend to fix or hand them a drink!!! They must drink from cans in public places and always put their thumb to cover the can when moving around people. Yes even the ones they think they know.

Looking back now I once had a friend everyone made fun of because she lost control of all her actions at a party held by "friends". She was drugged by HYENNAS masquerading as friends. It is disgusting what people are capable of. They are always plotting your demise and want to take things that do not belong to them by force.

These are lessons we must also teach our children. I teach my son and cousins that NO ONE IS ALLOWED TO TOUCH THEIR PRIVATE PARTS EXCEPT FOR ME, HIS FATHER MY MOTHER, AND THEIR GIRLFRIENDS/WIVES (IN FUTURE). If any man dares to do that I give them the permission to kill him or gorge his eyes out on the spot. Call me and I will go finish it off. Let us give our children a voice, tell them to report that immediately to you and teach them TO NAME AND SHAME the culprit.

The world is a sick place. The only way we can heal it is if we know exactly what and who we are dealing with so that they can be removed from society. Growing up I used to say I wanted to be a judge because I felt so strongly about sexual predators, still do! Much to the amusement of the classroom and the teacher I used to say I would measure the culprits penis in full view of everyone and the millimeters would determine how long he would ROT in jail. After determining how many years, he would be thrown in with those who have no possibility of parole. So the same thing they take away from others can be taken away from him.

Today I ask you to begin talking to your children. Your children is not just the ones you give birth to, it is every single child. Find out. Maybe one has had an encounter with a predator and it shows in their sudden change in behavior but you have no cooking clue. I am launching the NAME AND SHAME campaign. Do the right thing today and everyday by getting behind it. These things are not humans and must be EXPOSED. What ever happened to stoning? I am of the opinion that they must be stoned to death.

The End

It just hit me this morning that not so long ago I was pregnant and sick crying almost everyday and asking myself and those around me Anele Nkosi and Nomshado Q'tèè Ngwenya when will it end???!!!!

Well it ended,God blessed me with a little angel and we are fine. Just like the year, most of us were at our wits end in the beginning or the middle of the year thinking or asking will it end?

BUT guess what we are at the end. Moral of the story konke kuhamba kuhambe kuphele.

Beyoncé - Pretty Hurts