Drea Kelly on marriage to R. Kelly, her daughter’s accusation, courage t...

I don't know what to say about this interview that got me in literal tears and in my feelings . Women are abused guys tjo, I am women and I can relate . This interview was eye opening and I had to share . My heart goes out to Drea and she is right , being humble causes you pain. Don't be apologetic for who you are and what your story is just to make other people comfortable , fuck that. Live your truth and let them choke, imagine being apologetic for being great. 

I am happy that she acknowledges herself and the role she played in R Kelly's life and career. She owns being an influencer in his life , his music, his choreography ,supporting him, loving him and I'm here for her being unapologetic about it, because let's be honest , society wants to humble you, it wants you apologetic so it can break you down. If you are down you cant rise up and walk tall, you will forever be told what to do and when.

 

This interview is the bomb tjooooo and it will give you insight into discovering your own truth and living it without fear , favour or prejudice ngoba hayi singaphela. We all know women in our lives who have influenced their husband's life in a great way but get diminished and disrespected in return. They literally get no credit , just judgment about how their lives must be lived , they get judged on why they stay and why they go. . 

 It's a phenomenon we cannot explain. Where are the happy, stable relationships so we can benchmark . Apparently some people are happy in their relationship / marriage with stability , love , peace and consistency . I have yet to see one of those. Men need to treat women better if we are keeping it 100. South African men leave very little to be desired , it's embarrassing .

At this point some of us enjoy being single because we don't want other peoples children abusing us , cheating on us, breaking us down and making us feel like shit. 

Anyway enjoy this beautiful interview .