Xolile Ngwenya/Xolile Ngwenya Attorneys on running her own law firm and ...

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Nang' Mthokozisi | Spirit Of Praise 8 ft Mpumi Mtsweni

Good morning morning dear reader. Here is one of my favourite songs on my Playlist. I can play it the whole day as it is a reminder of what a joy Jehovah is . 2024 was a year for the books, I pray for 2025 to be even bigger and for Jehovah , the Holy Spirit and Jesus to lead you into a place of ultimate peace and joy that surpasses all human understanding . 

One thing I love about Jehovah is he is consistent in everything , he never wavers or changes because of moods or the people around him. I encourage us to be like him and be the flow and stop going with the flow. Hey and if you don't believe in Jesus it's also fine this post is not for you. But for those of us who believe , praise him and exclaim his goodness and mercy at the top of the rooftops for he is good! 

Drea Kelly on marriage to R. Kelly, her daughter’s accusation, courage t...

I don't know what to say about this interview that got me in literal tears and in my feelings . Women are abused guys tjo, I am women and I can relate . This interview was eye opening and I had to share . My heart goes out to Drea and she is right , being humble causes you pain. Don't be apologetic for who you are and what your story is just to make other people comfortable , fuck that. Live your truth and let them choke, imagine being apologetic for being great. 

I am happy that she acknowledges herself and the role she played in R Kelly's life and career. She owns being an influencer in his life , his music, his choreography ,supporting him, loving him and I'm here for her being unapologetic about it, because let's be honest , society wants to humble you, it wants you apologetic so it can break you down. If you are down you cant rise up and walk tall, you will forever be told what to do and when.

 

This interview is the bomb tjooooo and it will give you insight into discovering your own truth and living it without fear , favour or prejudice ngoba hayi singaphela. We all know women in our lives who have influenced their husband's life in a great way but get diminished and disrespected in return. They literally get no credit , just judgment about how their lives must be lived , they get judged on why they stay and why they go. . 

 It's a phenomenon we cannot explain. Where are the happy, stable relationships so we can benchmark . Apparently some people are happy in their relationship / marriage with stability , love , peace and consistency . I have yet to see one of those. Men need to treat women better if we are keeping it 100. South African men leave very little to be desired , it's embarrassing .

At this point some of us enjoy being single because we don't want other peoples children abusing us , cheating on us, breaking us down and making us feel like shit. 

Anyway enjoy this beautiful interview . 

SWV: Tiny Desk Concert

Asking, Searching, Knocking

Good morning to my beautiful and handsome readers. So guess who downloaded the app to Blog on her phone? Yes you guessed right...me ! 

This means that I get to pen down my thoughts everywhere and anytime. I have dreams of making ✨️ this blog a success. That I will achieve through your support and contribution to my posts. 

Why are people in such a rush 😐

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R90 000 girlfriend allowance.

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Benjamin Dube | How Excellent Is Your Name

KARDASHIANS At The Megerian Carpet

I could watch Reality TV all day, every day . I have been hooked on Keeping up with the Kardashians for as long as I can remember oh my soul it's ridiculous . I remember a time when I would sit on the TV the whole day with my phone on silent and just binge watch. 

I honestly don't know whether it was the relationship I was in and trying to fit in the mold of good partner who never goes anywhere or does anything outside the house OR if I have been a reality junkie before I hitch hiked on that ride. 

This is one of the funniest episodes of Keeping up with the Kardashians . I love Khloe's commentary and humor. Lol I hope you enjoy it and laugh as much as I did. 

USHER, Summer Walker, 21 Savage - Good Good (Official Music Video)

Hello there , thank you for coming to my blog this morning . So I just uploaded Usher Raymond's new song, Good Good feat Summer Walker and 21 Savage and all I got to say is just like it's title..this song is Good Good! 

Usher has the winning formula and he just is RnB ,it honestly doesn't get better than Usher!!!! Please enjoy the track just as much as I am , it's been on repeat from I don't even remember when . 

Ancestor worship: is it biblical ?

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Janet Jackson - Let's Wait Awhile

Hi, let's all huddle up around this song. Why has this song got me on a choke hold? Ever wished you had just waited ? 

What Happens To Your Body When You Squat 100 Times Every Day

Poland

So my best friend boarded a flight to Europe and I caught him before he took off. This has been sitting in my drafts since the 29th of June 2023. 

Listen homeboy has always been a fan of Beyonce , he was my plug on the latest concerts and performances in our varsity days. 

When Beyonce came with Global Citizen he was there obviously . However him flying to Poland to catch her Europe leg of her Renaissance tour is awe inspiring . I'm humbled to know this man. 

The Covenant Of Water Podcast- Episode 5 | Oprah's Super Soul | OWN

Hello there ! Welcome back to my blog. I have not read a book that is outside of the law in ages nor have I been keeping up with Oprah . 

Those who know me , know about my intense relationship with Oprah Winfrey . I watched this woman's show religiouslu over the years growing up , I think I might have mentioned this in one of my previous posts. 

I remember watching her Soul Sunday show without batting an eyelid on YouTube and TLC , to say I was hooked is an understatement . So I recently came across this video that I would like to share with you . The temptation to buy this book and to join Oprah's book club is growing legs. 

The name of the book is " The Covenant of Water ". The title alone has drawn me to want to know or rather read more on the book.  Love water and the power of water is humbling . 

Hopefully I make time to order this book and read it so that I can do a review ? Maybe add  a ring light and do the damn thing, once and for all. To say I am looking forward to getting my hands on this book is an understatement .

Please comment below on your thoughts about the video and also indicate if you will buying the book with me? 

Already Know

Hi everyone, special shout out to my RnB and Real Housewives of Atlanta fans just like myself. Listen Drew Sidora killed this, her and Ralph were in their bag while making this song ...damn! I cannot get over this song, it has been playing in my head for a minute now. 

I hope you are having a fabulous and chilled Thursday. Lately I have been listening to a lot of old and new music for purposes of finding my voice again, story for another day. Today was a court day and it was extremely interesting , so this song did the trick to help me to unwind. I love you my dear reader, thank you for popping in your presence is always welcomed. 

6 ways to make Women respect you

Good day to my dearest readers. Welcome back your presence is appreciated . It's been a minute since I updated my blog.

This one is for the gentlemen out there who are having trouble with understanding women and keeping them happy . I found these 6 great tips which will hopefully assist you in your quest to being the best man you can be . 

A man must love his woman and the woman must respect her man. Respect from a woman to a man , I have heard is the biggest aphrodisiac . However women find it hard to respect men because of the trash we are exposed to. 

In my little experience , these 6 tips will assist both women and men . Please follow these guys and let me know in the comments section if they have assisted you ? 

XOXO. 

LeToya - Torn (Official Music Video)

I can't believe that this song was done 16 years ago, or rather it was released 16 years ago . For some of us who grew up listening to Destiny's Child the break up of the first original group really left us torn. But when Sis, Letoya Luckett released this song we healed . 

Please enjoy and remember to hit the subscribe button on my blog . Thank you for being here .

Kind Regards 

Ms Curvy 

Jac Ross - So Into You (Tamia Cover)

Good morning to all those who are reading this . Growing up I was obsessed with Tamia, so into you, it was the ghetto anthem that I was living for . 

Recently I found another version of the song, and I am in love . I hope you enjoy it and have yourself a great week. Listen , work hard and persevere . Your dream coming true is on the other side of hardwork er and discipline. There is no crisis here just keep doing the work .