Tuesday 27 December 2022

Thursday 22 December 2022

The Most Dangerous Female Mobsters In History

40yo woman gave birth to 44 children🤩 in Uganda | @DOCUHUB

Overbooked

Fun Fact: I AM A MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER AND I AM EXCELLENT AT IT , IF YOU WANT MY SERVICES BOOK ME.

Aside from running Xolile Ngwenya Attorneys and being an attorney , I also love motivational speaking , MC'ing events and hosting talks. The first true love is law, however I consider the aforementioned a way to unwind and give back to my society .

A friend of mine and I were speaking about my talks the other day . We live in Mbombela , Mpumalanga Province and there is no casting agency here, so disappointed. No casting agency, no artist management company , which begs the question ..what is there really? Story for another day .

Manifestation is the key. Think about it , visualize it , work at it and wait for the right moment . Prepare for it , it's coming and yes I do believe I am the best.

I have a blog

Oh my so Many Revalations this morning. It has been revealed to me that you can have over 2500 followers on Twitter , 25 views on Watsapp but still don't get those people to view your blog. 😢

Bible

Bible= Basic Instructions Before Leaving Earth.

I have often asked myself how old the Bible is and it's history. The day I saw the word Asphalt in the book of Genesis was the day I confirmed what the Bible says in a latter book titled Ecclesiastes that, there is truly nothing new under the sun.

Oh wow an epiphany , wonder what it all means .Glory be to God nonetheless. If you want to lead you must read. So I did some reading and have included some links below which you can tap into if you are interested. Along the way I aslo found a depiction of Jesus Christ from one of the websites. And yes people , Jesus Christ is not white.

Back to the Holy Bible , yes whoever put it together inspires confidence . To God be the glory hallelujah .

Tap below for the links 👇

https://www.historyextra.com/period/ancient-history/history-bible-origins-who-wrote-when-how-reliable-historical-record/

https://www.history.com/news/who-wrote-the-bible

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bible

Friday 21 October 2022

Addictions that are killing your full potential .

So I have been following @Falcont Thoughts for a minute now on Twitter , they have fire content oh my. I have been extremely tired lately. I need to put my phone down in all honesty after going though their recent post.

Wow now that is fire and informative . I hope you enjoyed going through the slides as much as I have. Thank you for coming.

X.O.X.O

Ms Curvy

Wednesday 21 September 2022

Traff!cking Dr*gs | Pr!son | Brazil | G0d | Nigerian Husband | The Story...

Sunday 17 July 2022

Usher: Tiny Desk Concert

I had to do this. I love you Usher 😭

Sunday 26 June 2022

Rebecca Sensed Something Was Wrong in Her Marriage | Black Love | Oprah ...

I respect how it dawned on him that, "the apology was just the beginning".

There is a big difference between saying sorry and actually being sorry, a few people know this. When you say sorry sometimes it is for the sake of shutting the other person up. While being sorry on the other hand is remorse and changed behavior.

To be continued...

Rebecca on Terry's Infidelity: "I Should Have Confronted Him" | Black Lo...

It is a beautiful Sunday morning and here I am again back to where I started, spring cleaning my head and my life.

You need to be intentional about being the best version of yourself and allow yourself the space and time to grow outside of others.

As I unpack the the last 10 years of my life it dawns on me that I have accumulated a lot of other things that do not belong to me. I can identify my things and have compartmentalized them and they fit. Im just not sure about other people's stuff, what do I do with their stuff?

One thing I know is that I ain't touching or sorting out anyones stuff at all. I'm going to leave it outside the gate for a couple of days and if the owners don't fetch them, I will not be responsible for what happens to it.All I know is it ain't mine and I don't have space nor will I be able to make space for it.

Terry Crews on the Moment He Told Rebecca He Was "Willing" | Black Love ...

Saturday 25 June 2022

Hair care and Amogelang

Today I washed and conditioned my hair. I poured myself a glass of wine to unwind. Took a video and my daughter starts crying in the background because I put her down. She is so amazing, my little star.

Here we go 🍷

If you were reading my blog you would comment, like, or share but you are not. I'm offended I won't lie. You can engage Facebook, Twitter and Instagram but not my blog? Oh ok, cool black family.

I've decided to open up my blog a little more and introduce new articles and writers. A long time ago a diva once told me to post some videos. Ok let me see what I can do.

Friday 17 June 2022

How to make money.

Friday 10 June 2022

Mocha-Mama Wellness Healing Products

Ok so Hazel Phumzile Moukangwe in Mbombela, Mpumalanga Province recently started making and selling her own wellness products.

I am happy with the quality. She makes bath salts, soaps, moisturizer, lotion, bath bombs, scented candles and scented oils to mention but a few.

So these products actual started getting me to think, especially the Aura Salts, so I decided to do some reading which I also hope will help you. Remember all you have to do is cleanse once a week.

So what is Aura?

the distinctive atmosphere or quality that seems to surround and be generated by a person, thing, or place.
'the ceremony retains an aura of mystery'
synonyms: atmosphere, air, quality, aspect, character, ambience, mood, spirit, feeling, feel, flavour, colouring, colour, complexion, climate, tone, overtone, undertone, tenor, impression, suggestion, emanation, vibrations, vibes, vibe
(in spiritualism and some forms of alternative medicine) a supposed emanation surrounding the body of a living creature and regarded as an essential part of the individual.
'emotional, mental, and spiritual levels form an energy field around the body known as the aura'.

MMMH! Who does not love or need some scented candles in their lives cummon? Eishkom has made it a necessity even, so why not invest in some? Kill two birds with one stone, light up your life and make it smell good at the same time? Sign me up please!

Are you serious soaps too? Yes beauty bars as well. Her line has extended since she started making her own soaps at her home. I'm happy to report that she has added tumric bar soaps as well as activated charcoal beauty soap bars.

I am on of her customers and was very happy when the soap became soapy and frothy while I put it under running water. Then again I would not expect less from her.

What are the health benefits of Aura Salts/bath salts you might wonder just like I did. Well according to the article ;https://getmaude.com/blogs/themaudern/the-benefits-of-bath-salts, which I have copied some parts of below. These are some of the benefits of bath salts:

HEALTH

the benefits of bath salts.

PUBLISHED

Dec 17, 2020

AUTHOR

Sarah Rowland

An upgrade to your daily routine promotes relaxation and well-being.

Salt: the ocean’s waters are filled with it, and naturally so are our bodies. From antiseptic, detoxifying, cleansing, and a wealth of natural healing properties, salt has a wide array of benefits. The mineral works in foods to dry things out and preserve, but it can also help to hold moisture in the body. With hair products, salt aids in building texture. In body scrubs, it helps to exfoliate the skin, hydrate, and purify. And in warm water bath soaks, salt works to help us to relax the body and mind.

Submerging our bodies into a bath filled with warm water and salt is proven to be one of the best ways to restore ourselves after a long day. This health-promoting ritual soothes the muscles, hydrates the skin, detoxifies the body, and relieves internal swelling. The macro and trace minerals found in salts are necessary for our health and can actually be drawn into the bloodstream during a warm bath, which can help to balance out the entire body. The best versions have added benefits from natural sources, such as essential oils and earth-given minerals that can maximize results. This magic combination works to synergistically cure our internal ailments and nourish our bodies. Whether we’re seeking silkier skin, a better night’s sleep, or a little detoxification—bath salts can play such a beneficial role within our day-to-day routine.

Here are a few of our favorite reasons to start incorporating bath salts:

Moisturizes the skin
Soaking in a warm salt solution, even just once a week for 15-20 minutes, offers great benefits in terms of improving the skin barrier function, hydrating the skin, and decreasing inflammation. Studies even show that people suffering from skin issues, such as psoriasis or eczema, can improve their condition with regular salt bathing. The minerals found within a salty soak also work to promote more youthful, glowing skin from the inside out by purging impurities from the skin and balancing skin moisture levels.

Decreases stress
Spending time soaking in a warm bath with the right concentration of bath salts can help to increase overall circulation throughout the body, which in turn works to further relax our internal systems. Along with eliminating stress, bath salts help to soothe our muscular systems and aid in both mental and physical rejuvenation. A warm bath is perfect for helping us relax when we’re tense or anxious.

Helps insomnia
Research states that 6 out of 10 Americans suffer from insomnia. Nutritionally speaking, salt baths can play a role in encouraging better sleep patterns. Taking baths with magnesium-rich salts allows our bodies to absorb the mineral through the skin, which in turn assists our bodies in getting a good night’s sleep.

Offers vital healing properties
Studies show that regular salt soaks can work to promote our most optimum level of biological and cellular function. This ritual can also aid internal hydration while helping to replenish the body’s electrolytes. Soaking in a salt bath also helps to improve our overall immunity and balance our alkaline / acid levels. These salty soaks remove toxins from the bloodstream, with their intensive detoxification properties. Additional benefits include regulating blood sugar, improving cardiovascular health, and boosting circulatory and nerve function.

Soothes pain
Soaking in warm water with added bath salts can help to ease various types of pain by taking weight off of the joints and muscles. The act also helps our bodies to heal faster after injury or surgery, as salt offers exceptional natural healing properties. With chronic pain, nourishing salt baths have been proven highly effective in treating various issues including rheumatoid arthritis. The magnesium-rich salt can help to relieve muscle spasms and menstrual cramps as well.

Evidence

Reading today.

Topic: Principles of Evidence

"Somebody give Jesus a hand he is worthy to be praised." - Trace Gospel Artists song.

Let me get lost in the Preface.

MGM Sir

A life in the times

Today I attended a disciplinary hearing and learned a lot. I am happy to learn everyday, the Chairperson and initiator of the proceedings are well seasoned attorneys.

It was a good environment and I am following the ratio of one mouth and two ears. You really do learn more if you keep quiet, it's also good to take direction from those in front of you. We are standing on shoulders of giants. Iron sharpens iron and so do we.

Maintain your cool my dear, I find myself reciting to myself. The red velvet cake and cream cheese was amazing oh my soul 🎂😋, a great time to be alive. Long live Jehovah long live! Amandla, awake.

I'm texting this standing in front of the heater getting lost in thoughts and word. Mmmh fireplace, I love fireplaces I feel like starting a fire is an exercise I'm interested in. Chopping wood sounds amazing.

5 Important Life Lessons from Plato

Tuesday 11 January 2022

FISTAZ MIXWELL PRESENTS VAALSOW - Hade Mabebeza

I just saw some lady I know's status on Watsapp it read "harde mabebeza" and it immediately reminded me of this BANGER. I hope you enjoy this throwback as much as I did. 💃💃

Thursday 6 January 2022

One foot in front of the other

Unemployment is a state of mind. If you can think it, you can achieve it. Maybe it is true that a lot of people do not think, they are dependent on others to think for them. Imagine being unable to feed yourself and your kin just because the thread is not touching the paraffin and your brain won't turn on.

Having children when I did was my biggest driving force. Also having the types of parents I do, who will cut you off and let you starve until you learn to fend for yourself because they starved too and had to make it against all odds.

I sought out inspiration wherever I went. I was motivated by other people's drive and never intimidated. I wanted to learn how to fish, so I surrounded myself with people who fish. It's true that show me your friends and I will show you your future. My friends are doing extremely well for themselves and that energy has propelled me to work harder and do well for myself as well.

If you chill with 4 whores, you are the 5th one. Choose your friends and the energy you keep around you wisely . If you are with 4 people who gossip about others and go through other people's lives with a tooth pick, you are the fifth person holding a tooth pick.

The country is in a crisis, there are no jobs because we are not creating them. The majority of the country is dependent on social grants and social housing. In their heads people have rights but no responsibilities, cry our beloved country. I repeat, unemployment is a state of mind. You need to wake up and create. It is inherent in every single one of us to create as we have been created by thd Creator, in his image. There are no excuses, no one eats excuses. We have an entire army of stupid people carrying smart phones, that's another pandemic. People who use smartphones for pictures and social media but not to improve their own lives.

Today I am grateful for the opportunity to wake up in the morning

and go do what I love. I did not grow up with a silver spoon in my mouth, I have to work for everything I want and have. What I would like to do is inspire an entire generation to remember or rather know their generational mission and that is; ECONOMIC FREEDOM IN OUR LIFETIME. NO ONE IS COMING TO SAVE US, WE NEED TO SAVE OURSELVES.

This afternoon I realized it's far where I come from and it's far where I am going to. The road is hard and narrow. If I fall 7 times I have rise 8 times more. Today I was reminded that success occurs when preparation meets opportunity. You need to get ready so that you don't have to get ready. I love biblical parables like the one of the 10 virgin girls. We need to be prepared like the 5 girls who made sure that they had enough oil in their lamps. Stay prepared.

Ms_Curvy

Warrior of light.

Find your light in the darkness. Before man discovered fire and electricity he must have adapted well to darkness until he discovered his own light.

Do not depend on anyone but God and yourself. In a world where we think we can see, we are surrounded by darkness we cannot see. Be your own hero, rely on your God given instincts and follow your light.

-Ms_Curvy

Sunday 2 January 2022

Dependency.

The narrative while I was growing up was never marriage and it still is not.

This is for all those who question other peoples choices, we mean those living under the misapprehension that marriage is an achievement. In our country having a driver's license is an achievement so we are not surprised people think that getting married is a mark of success.

The narrative for some is happiness and freedom. The happiness to choose how to live your life and make use of your own time and the freedom to be who you want to be, when you want to be with whom you want to be, without any labels. People shouldn't be worried about what is going on in other people's lives, they should be worried about the fact that, why are they worried about other people's lives in the first place!!!!!!!

Nywe nywe dogs bark at moving cars and people who live in glass houses should not throw stones. One thing you learn about life and human beings is that we are all flawed, we are all going through something. Why then do you choose to deflect on our own issues and compare them with someone elses to make yourself feel good?

Its like an overweight person going in on an obese person, uhm you are both overweight and have serious problems with your health and eating habits. Does the other fat persons cellulite, magically remove your bulging stomach? Why don't you go to the gym. This is called an anology, I used it to make my point. Hopefully my readers can read between the lines and I don't have to spell everything out to them....bleh.

Some of my pieces are introspective and some retrospective. They are healing not only for the the writer hereof but also the reader. Sometimes I go into a trance while writing and lose myself in my words and the texts, I often wonder if the end user also finds themselves in the same place.

Ladies need to hustle, this whole "a man must" sounds amazing on paper and on the gram but in reality it is a select few who reap the fruits that they didn't plant.

For the rest of the realists and also select few women who have inherited the gift and curse of "reason" and thinking capacity its always those daunting questions that play in the back of their minds...

"what if he loses it all" or " what is my role in life, am I just supposed to shut up and look pretty" or " what is my contribution to society" and " but I have my own voice, my own dreams and ambitions that I want to realize, surely I am more than just a pretty face".

The world changes because it has to. There was a once a time when men were the end all and be all in all societies and the household, but if it were so amazing and it worked so well then why did it change? Is it because the principle was flawed and needed adjustment or was it because it was idealistic and not realistic?

Saturday 1 January 2022

In the new year

People who are not happy with themselves or their own lives will never be happy with you.

The real question is why do we expect people to be happy with us in the first place? Why don't we just be happy with ourselves?

The truth is subjective and you are allowed to have your own truth, as long as it does not affect anyone negatively or sow division amongst people intentionally. Your truth should be yours and you should use it to advance your cause and to protect yourself from untruths about yourself.

In the new year, try and live your truth and own it. Walk in your truth and wear it as a badge of honor if you have to. You don't have to rub it in anyone else's face as they have their own truth. Do not allow anyone to dim your light because of their own insecurities, stop making other people's problems your own and overcompensating. Life is too short, no one makes it out alive.

Kind Regards