SABS APPROVED.

“Men respect standards, get some!” On the real though it’s about time some women got standards and the ones who do, try and maintain them. We are losing some serious respect and we are just oblivious to that fact. Truth is most of these guys are not trying hard enough, some are not even trying at all but we turn a blind eye.  We find ourselves in arrangements we know we should not be in, in the first place. The only arrangements I’m interested in are ones of me getting paid!

Standards are like walls the higher they are the better, trust me. Guys have become too lazy because we allow them. This is a jungle men are hunters and we are the hunted it has been this way since the dawn of time. A hunter goes for the kill; he tactfully plans his attack with precision and goes for the jugular. But todays prey is not worth the effort, it has become too easy, there is no thrill. In the cycle of life the weaker species is always fighting for survival and devises the best defence mechanisms   to prevent being a victim. The point I’m trying to drive across is that the women of today have become too available. We can be reduced to prey that takes itself to the predator. Imagine a chicken bringing itself to you with a fork, knife and seasoning, that’s us we are begging to be eaten and yes PUN INTENDED.

One of my good guy friends was like, you’re gold so start owning that and remember how hard it is to extract it from the earth and that some men die just to get it. I was forced to sit down and assess that statement, not only because it was coming from a man but because I wanted to know what it meant to me and my life. The word gold stuck out to me. What is gold? Gold is the stuff that paves the pathways to heaven that’s what it is!  Gold is a commodity. A commodity girls, is something of value.  It is hard to come by firstly and secondly people aspire to own it.

It’s time we recognise our value and maintain some damn standards. Stop breaking down your walls (standards) keep them high. The lower your walls are the more accessible you are, I mean some ladies walls are so low guys don’t even need  to plan the jump anymore, they just walk in and out with their hands in their pockets, whistling. It is very easy to establish standards; you just have to know who you are and what you want and more especially what you don’t want. Once that is done, the tricky part is to maintain them.  Upkeep is of the utmost importance and you can achieve that by being vocal about what you want and don’t want. I have found that being honest and vocal filters out the nonsense that was just going to be a waste of time.

If you have standards then you must know they go hand in hand with self-respect. Your body is a temple not a 24 Hour Gas Station; this one is to the ladies who act like they have no sense. Yes I mean the girls with legs that simulate automated doors; you would swear they have sensors in between their thighs. It is ok to say NO. Remember Cinderella?  Well, all she lost to find her prince charming was a glass slipper and not her dignity. So pick up yourself and whatever little pride you have left and start constructing your wall. Someone worth you will get through it without you having to lower it or yourself. I always tell people be careful of what you want to be remembered and known for, it resonates through time. Orgasms and false flattery however are however ,momentary.

Its time to concentrate on other things in your life. Be a formidable woman, go out there and get yours. Pay no mind to things you know you shouldn’t be paying attention to anyway. They say don’t make a person a priority if they only make you an option. Make yourself a priority you know you only have your best interests at heart. Things will happen when they have to and in their own time. Start exercising the power to dismiss what you can see. Tell yourself its ok not to think you can change every dog that you meet. Remind yourself it’s not your job to teach an old dog new tricks and walk away.  Maya Angelou says “If the first time someone shows you who they are believe them.” 

Kind Regards                                                                                     

Ms_Curvy