Headless State,

I have been single for more than a year believe it or not. It has been a journey I have enjoyed, granted it was rocky in the beginning because i felt like a fish out of water. Through this journey of self-discovery I must say I learnt a lot including the difference between being single and being lonely. If someone is lonely it means they have absolutely no one. I would be spitting in all my friends faces if I ever said I was lonely. I am however single and judging by the great relationship I am having with God and myself, that is how it will stay for a while. Plus there are no real African men left, all have been diluted and are nothing but a fading image of the great men before them.

 

When did our men forget who they are? When did our women forget who they are? We come from a long line of Royalty. We are Kings and Queens and its time we start acting like it. Whatever happened to a man courting a woman and showing her and her parents the respect they deserve. We have adopted a culture that is not our own, all of a sudden women have to teach men what they are supposed to be and that is being men. If men actually were and acted like men then maybe women would do the same.

 

My friend made a valid point when she said that if you want to eradicate a nation you do it in two ways, you make them question their belief system and secondly you prey on the heads of that nation, and those unfortunately happened to be you. You have been diluted and lost who you are. The success of a nation is subject to the way they treat their women. Don't believe me? Look at the Islam, Indian, Jewish, Chinese nations just to name a few. They are the wealthiest and most respected in the world. They have stature, not because of their wealth but because of the way they value their women. They understand that a woman is a gem. She needs to be taken care of and those women in their veils understand their worth not only to themselves and God but also to their husbands.

 

A woman was never made to be alone. She needs to be taken care of. She must never ever fend for herself or her children. I want to know when our Kings forgot how to be kings and rule over their households? When did men forget that a woman needs to be taken care of? When did you forget that women need a head and authority from you? Since when is there equality in a relationship? Since when does a woman have to bring her share? Who taught you this? Your fore fathers are turning in their graves. Disappointments, is what you are. The ratio for the ones who get it right is 1 to 10. The rest  of the 9 is disillusioned by the propaganda you are unaware you are inflated with. Sadly you think you are a child of the world, NO YOU ARE NOT and never will be, if you were , the world would have accepted you the way you were and not have turned you into a lousy carbon copy of something you don't know. You are an AFRICAN that is what you are.

 

Remember Saartjie Bartman? She was stolen from her own land and sold overseas because of her Africanness which they did not understand and in turn because of their ignorance and greed, turned her into a centre piece of ridicule. We can excuse that lost nation because they are savages who masquerade under the guise of their own culture that they always assume is better than the rest of the inhabitants of this world. What they did to our own woman was demeaning and disrespectful; they reduced her to nothing but a big ass and tits.

 

 

Fast forward to 2012, African men are doing the same thing to their own. With pages on social sites which our own men like and go through religiously. Distasteful pages flood these sites, where you’re women and someone’s daughter spreads her legs and show their Godly jewels much to your amusement. You are no different from the brutes who did the same to Saartjie. You have cheapened and deflated the value of your nation, that ies in your women. A real African man would never do that. He respects his Queens and understands their value. Not only as women but as future wives and mothers to their children. What happened to you? You are exploiting your own for what exactly? To keep up with a nation of people that will never ever regard you as anywhere near equal.

Every time you go through these sites remember you are responsible for creating this world your own children will live in. You forget you will be fathers one day and your own daughters will have her legs strewn across a bed with nothing but a thong on. If you are honest you will not be angry because you created it. You really need to wake up and remember who you are. Our belief system has been shaken and you, our men, our kings, our leaders have fallen. You have spit on the faces of the men before you, the real men who made you. Never ever for one moment make that mistake of trying to justify what is happening, it is unlike us it is borrowed and you are doing it wrong.

You have fallen!!!!!! Get up and dust yourselves. We are like necks without heads,there is no direction. This life is not yours its borrowed, its time you gave it back.

Kind Regards
Ms_Curvy